The Long Goodbye to my Mami 3/11/1936 thru 4/15/2014

22 Apr

I have been a caregiver for my parents for almost three years. My mother had Alzheimer’s and I have had the rare opportunity to be a witness to a disease that takes the human experience backward. I have watched as my mother spiraled downward from a full functioning adult into a mere 140 pound toddler. Most of all I watched helplessly as more than her abilities disappeared.

My mother was co-dependent. She always had people around her. Her home was where all the holidays were celebrated and you wouldn’t let her find out that you were alone or doing without on these days because it was her mission to serve you on the special days. That being said I watched slowly as the crowd around her thinned.

Her illness didn’t allow her to be the star of the show anymore and the very people that she so showered with love, food and laughter would no longer find time to come to her side. It made me sad but she didn’t know. Her disease protected her from what was happening to her. So over three years I watched as her large life became very small until there was just us.

And then there was just her in her own little world.

Rest in peace Mami.

I miss you with all my heart and soul.

I thank you for the strength and courage that you passed on to me before passing on.

I shall never forget.

A picture of “My Maria’s” with a little Sugar.


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One response to “The Long Goodbye to my Mami 3/11/1936 thru 4/15/2014

  1. Richard Walser

    April 22, 2014 at 7:15 pm

    I was very lucky to have meet this wonderful women. The family that she blessed the world with have bigger hearts than you can imagine. My only regret is that I didn’t get to spend enough time with her and learn more from her. She will be missed by every person that had the pleasure to meet her. My heart goes out to her family. Rip Marie


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